For generations and generations there has been the stigma that women are more complicated than men. Really? Do you think so? Do we have more hormones than men? No our hormones are different but there is the same quantity. Our body parts are different but cells are the same. Yes, we women have periods and we do tend to get moody and depressed at certain times of the month but my husband has them too just not at the same time, thank god!
Even though he does not get "periods" he still has the same emotional roller coaster that goes along with menstrual cycles. Our brain may function differently but it still functions. You say potato I say potato! I sometimes think my husband is more complicated than I am. He has a type A personality and things have to be done just right! I sometimes just want to symplify things, make life easy! Let us not even get started on the subject of asking for directions!
We have a car that has a built in navigation system. It is easy just put the address in and it will show you a map and give voice commands. How hard is it to turn left when the voice says "turn left" No no no my husband knows a better way of getting there than what the navigation tell him to do and what happens? We get lost!!! When we first moved here he took my car so he could drive to work. Every single day he got lost coming back to the hotel! He had the navigation system but did he use it? NO! He thought he knew the way. first time I forgave him but after a week I was getting frusterated with him! No we are not more complicated than men!
lol, I agree! On the emotional level, I can't say that I've seen guys break down and watch sappy movies or anything like that, but they definitly have a level of "emotional moodiness". Mine just gets restless, crabby and I have to constently ask "what is your issue today???" which I simply get a "nothing! im going to play a computer game". I tell him if he is going to be like a girl about it, just give me the heads up cause I know how to respond to a females mood. That usually makes him smile, but when he is like this, it just makes him mad, hehe. Guys are definitly more complicated I think. They don't express themselfs as honestly as they could. (There are a few exceptions, some guys aren't afraid to tell you exactly how they feel even if it shows a "weaker" side.)
ReplyDeleteI would have to disagree with you on the emational side of things guy tend not to be as near as emational as most women are. I would agree with you on being complicated. we both are complicated in our own ways.
ReplyDeleteI do agree with men being an emotion rollar coaster like we are, they are just not in the same way. One day my husband will just come home in a bad mood and take it out on me(the first person he sees) and then will just blame me for his bad mood. Usually it is work or something. Other days he will be happy and act like a kid with our daughter and say that I am the grumpy one. He goes up and down for so many reasons that I dont know what is going through his mind at any givin time. So yes, I think they have many emotions too.
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